Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes commitment. 

Love is in the air… oh, never mind, that’s pollen. Achoo! Spring is two weeks away, but you can feel and smell it coming. It was eighty-one freaking degrees today! I have to admit, spring is one of my favorite seasons (fall is the other), but there are some things I just don’t like about…

Anxious for nothing: A message to my single people.

Before you jump into any type of relationship with someone, make sure you’ve had a chance to see every aspect of that person. Getting with someone based on the one side of them you’ve seen, will lead to false expectations down the line… Know what you’re getting yourself into, because falling for the one thing…

Single: A bad word.

Okay, okay, okay… I’m going to say something, forgive me for saying it, BUT… 🗣 I’m single! I know, I know, I know… I just said, the “S” word! 😵 Get over it. I have, and I’m loving it! It’s actually not that bad! 🥰 *Currently ducking stones* Now that I’ve gotten that out the…

If it’s hard for you to get over them, do this. 👇🏾

🚫 Delete their phone number.🚫 Don’t check their social media pages🚫 Don’t spend your days wondering what went wrong!✅ Focus on strengthening your relationship with God, and finding/walking in your purpose.✅ Get a hobby, perfect your craft, or do something positive that impacts your community and the world around you. Spend time with people who…

Hard truth: The potential you see may never become their reality.

Your feelings will have you seeing potential in people that they don’t see in themselves, but that potential becomes a false expectation when what you see in that person becomes more of who you want them to become rather than who they truly are or want to be… People are who they are, right now….

Don’t start if you can’t finish.

Don’t start a new relationship if you’re not over your past relationship. If you aren’t emotionally available, don’t come into a person’s life and pretend to care when you know that you don’t plan to invest yourself in ways that can build a healthy, meaningful relationship between the two of you. It isn’t fair to…

Sometimes growth means learning to grow apart…

If someone wants to walk out of your life, let them go! It could be the best thing that ever happened to you. Holding on to the wrong person can keep you from the right one, or even delay your blessings. Let them move out of your way, so that you can see clearly. Sometimes,…

Heal first. Love is freedom, not control.

Some people try to “control” their current relationship because they were hurt in the past and that pain left them feeling powerless. So, they build walls, become uncompromising, manipulative or even run, in order to protect themselves from being hurt again; but truth is, they’ve never healed. They are hurting themselves by dwelling on the…

Equally yoked in mind.

If you’re depressed, irritated or uneasy with them, then you can do without them! There’s a saying, “I can do bad all by myself.” If a person is already in a bad space before getting into a relationship, they don’t need someone who will bring them down any further! They need someone who will help…

Three things you should do when you’ve been played.

Some of you are dating married people and you don’t even know it. No, I’m not talking about on paper. I’m talking about in their heart. You’re connected to someone who’s still connected to their ex, and now they’ve brought you into this spiritual threesome or love triangle if you will, without your consent. But…