Don’t allow the fear of dying alone, be the death of you!

There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but when you stay with someone out of fear of being alone, just to say you have somebody, or to to put on a picture perfect act for the world… you’re doing it wrong. If the two of you aren’t fighting to stay together, that means one…

Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

You’re not for everybody, and that’s okay!

You can’t help them heal if they refuse to let go. No matter how much of yourself that you give, to the wrong one, you will never be enough. You could have all the right qualities, and still not be the right person for that person or even some people. Learn to pour into individuals…

Understanding clears the elephant in the room.

Ever been in a relationship where the vibe was typically good, and one bad thing happened and it changed everything or at least it changed your perspective? Whether it was a good working relationship with you and a business partner, a personal relationship, a relationship between you and a family member or whatever the case…

It’s not love it’s bondage.

It’s deeper than feelings, sometimes it’s bondage and you’ve confused it with love. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Isn’t that crazy? How can bondage feel like love? Sin is tricky that way, but it always ends in disaster if you don’t put an end to it. I’m no expert in relationships but I believe experience is the best teacher,…

Equally yoked in mind.

If you’re depressed, irritated or uneasy with them, then you can do without them! There’s a saying, “I can do bad all by myself.” If a person is already in a bad space before getting into a relationship, they don’t need someone who will bring them down any further! They need someone who will help…

Don’t let it kill you before you decide to let go…

Some people allow others to take and take from them and they still won’t let go of that person who’s misusing them. What is it going to take for you to let go? Will you allow them to take your life too? Listen, they’ve taken your smile, they’ve taken your peace, they’ve taken your joy,…

Love them from a distance.

Sometimes, you have to love people from a distance… If they make you sick, literally, I’m talking about to your stomach, because you’re so stressed out, anxious and upset about how they’re mistreating you. Do not be afraid to love them people from over here. You let them stay over there, and for the sake…

You’re ready, they’re not. What should you do?

You keep your options open… This way you’re being smart about the situation, because let’s face it. If the two of you’ve been dating for some time now, but the dating relationship is the same as when the two of you started, then it’s probably going to stay that way. If the relationship is going…