Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes commitment. 

Love is in the air… oh, never mind, that’s pollen. Achoo! Spring is two weeks away, but you can feel and smell it coming. It was eighty-one freaking degrees today! I have to admit, spring is one of my favorite seasons (fall is the other), but there are some things I just don’t like about…

Don’t put your life on hold for inconsistent people.

Don’t put your life on hold for people who aren’t sure about you. People make it clear when they’re serious about you. You won’t ever be confused about where you stand. Some people just want to keep access to you or power over you. If you keep waiting for them to make a life with…

Don’t allow the fear of dying alone, be the death of you!

There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but when you stay with someone out of fear of being alone, just to say you have somebody, or to to put on a picture perfect act for the world… you’re doing it wrong. If the two of you aren’t fighting to stay together, that means one…

Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

You’re not for everybody, and that’s okay!

You can’t help them heal if they refuse to let go. No matter how much of yourself that you give, to the wrong one, you will never be enough. You could have all the right qualities, and still not be the right person for that person or even some people. Learn to pour into individuals…

Understanding clears the elephant in the room.

Ever been in a relationship where the vibe was typically good, and one bad thing happened and it changed everything or at least it changed your perspective? Whether it was a good working relationship with you and a business partner, a personal relationship, a relationship between you and a family member or whatever the case…

It’s not love it’s bondage.

It’s deeper than feelings, sometimes it’s bondage and you’ve confused it with love. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Isn’t that crazy? How can bondage feel like love? Sin is tricky that way, but it always ends in disaster if you don’t put an end to it. I’m no expert in relationships but I believe experience is the best teacher,…

Equally yoked in mind.

If you’re depressed, irritated or uneasy with them, then you can do without them! There’s a saying, “I can do bad all by myself.” If a person is already in a bad space before getting into a relationship, they don’t need someone who will bring them down any further! They need someone who will help…