Stop glorifying your problems and glorify your God.

Sometimes, we have no control over what we go through in life, however, we do have control over whether we remain a victim for the rest of our lives or become victorious through Christ. If you know someone who’s always giving you a list of their problems, always complaining, and cynical, these people are looking…

Wisdom to understand.

I’ve learned that the best way to understand someone is to empathize with them, and the best way to empathize with them is to get out of your feelings and become selfless. You can’t understand anyone completely if all you hear is yourself. Your thoughts, opinions, and feelings are your perceptions of yourself and the…

Be cool with not having the last word.

For some, having the last word is equivalent to them scoring the touch down that wins the Super Bowl or a TKO that lands them heavyweight champion of the world. I’m serious. These type of people like to argue, but to them, the most important thing is to win. They feel like they’ve won a…

The strong one…

Everybody knows the strong one as… THE STRONG ONE. You can see the strength and courage in THE STRONG ONE’S eyes. THE STRONG ONE fights battles and conquers them. THE STRONG ONE walks through hell and isn’t bothered by the flames. THE STRONG ONE is a prayer warrior, and a great adviser. THE STRONG ONE…

I thought wrong. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I remember when I was young and naive, I wanted to marry a man of God, preferably a pastor. In my (young and naive) mind a pastor or man of God in general was a better choice to have as a spouse, than a “regular man”. Silly me… Little did I know that even a…

Love is Freedom.

Love gave us free will, to choose to love or hate. He gave us the choice to trust him and be obedient to his Word, or to trust our feelings and take matters into our own hands. Whatever path we choose, we can be sure that his love for us is unfailing. Jesus died for…

Spilled Milk.

Don’t cry over spilled milk. I learned this phrase as a youngster. My mom taught me this when I would make a childish mistake being clumsy, for instance; breaking a glass vase, ripping my favorite pair of jeans or losing money! 😳💸 Those are just a few things, that I would get upset or feel…

Get to moving!

Have you ever been somewhere that you’re not completely sure how you even got there? For instance a job. You know that you applied and went through the interview process etc. and that’s how you got the job but ten years down the road you are wondering what happened? Maybe you were supposed to have…

Wishful thinking….

Have you ever met someone that is full of wishes but no faith? They’ll sound something like this, “I wish my husband would be more like that, I wish my yard was as big as theirs or I wish my job was as easy as yours.” Full of wishes… But no faith… You have to…

Lighten up!

Sometimes the pressures of life can come banging on our door early in the morning like an unwanted guest. Usually when this happens you may go about with a stale face like you’ve been sucking on a lemon all morning. Lighten up, this too shall pass. I will be the first to admit that sometimes…