You’re deserving of love. ♥️

When you’ve been misused in past relationships, and you finally find someone who loves you right, it’s scary. Some will try to sabotage the new relationship because they expect it to go downhill like all the rest, and in order to protect themself, they either build a wall or they hurt the person before they…

Lust and infatuation part 5

Silent anger is the worst anger because you never know what a person is thinking and they’re too far gone to think clearly…  Vanessa  I have to go through six weeks of physical therapy. I’ve been through three so far, and I’m regaining my strength to talk again. The swelling in my head has went…

Single: A bad word.

Okay, okay, okay… I’m going to say something, forgive me for saying it, BUT… 🗣 I’m single! I know, I know, I know… I just said, the “S” word! 😵 Get over it. I have, and I’m loving it! It’s actually not that bad! 🥰 *Currently ducking stones* Now that I’ve gotten that out the…

MaRriAgE iS jUsT a piEcE oF pApeR: A piece of paper worth fighting for.

I’m so tired of some people saying, “MaRriAgE iS jUsT a piEcE oF pApeR,” as a means to excuse a dead end relationship. They say, “marriage doesn’t keep a person faithful,” well guess what? Neither does staying in a relationship with someone for years, decades, or your entire life, who hasn’t made a commitment to…

Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes teamwork.

Appreciate what you have when it comes to love. I’m talking about real love. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Compliment each other’s character. If you feel like there’s 75% of great things you love about your spouse, but 25% you can do without; don’t go out looking for someone to fulfill that 25%. You should…

Don’t be anxious, be prayerful when dating.

Don’t be so quick to jump into a relationship because you’re tired of being alone, or you’re bored or horny… 😒 Listen, the sad reality is, people are too anxious to have somebody, when they haven’t even discovered themselves. We have to really put our feelings to the side folks, and think about what’s driving our…

There’s nothing wrong with being single.

Long time ago many women’s validation for their life came from their husband and how many kids they could push out, but today’s a new day, thank God. A woman doesn’t need to be married to know who she is, and a man doesn’t need to be married to know who he is. Unfortunately our…

Confession time.

Okay, so a moment of transparency… I’m good by myself, but doggoneit, 🗣🗣🗣I WANT A FREAKING HUSBAND! Every now and then I’ll ask God, “God, where is my husband?‼️” I know that my future hubby is out there somewhere, asking God, “Lord, where is my wife?” Lol I have hope, but dear Jesus, 😫“WHY IS…

The single stench.

Single people carry a certain stench. Oh, you didn’t know? You better ask somebody. Or start to pay attention to the facial expressions of your married family members or friends when you come around. I’ve noticed an elephant in the room… and it’s time to air it out. There’s this stigma mostly adopted by older…

One for the reason of love

Until you heal from the pain of your past, you will go through life hurting everyone who loves you, including yourself. Moving on is not the same as being healed. Forgive others, forgive yourself and take time to heal.  One for the reason of Love, book coming soon to Amazon, Kindle and your favorite book…