Dear ex, I wish you the best.

Once upon a time I couldn’t see me without you- No one could’ve told me that our love wouldn’t stand the test of time… or two- We went through the worst of the worst, but we always found each other- No matter how many times we’d fall, but we’d bounce back like rubber. I found…

You’re deserving of love. ♥️

When you’ve been misused in past relationships, and you finally find someone who loves you right, it’s scary. Some will try to sabotage the new relationship because they expect it to go downhill like all the rest, and in order to protect themself, they either build a wall or they hurt the person before they…

Speed dating part 5 (Final part)

***Tap play on the link at the bottom of this page to listen via my podcast.*** Zoe and Gena had flew out to Miami, his hometown. His uncle was celebrating a birthday, and they were on a yacht partying. Gena facetimed Toya and Bentley. She seemed to be having a good time with Zoe. “What…

Don’t allow the fear of dying alone, be the death of you!

There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but when you stay with someone out of fear of being alone, just to say you have somebody, or to to put on a picture perfect act for the world… you’re doing it wrong. If the two of you aren’t fighting to stay together, that means one…

Love is the only thing that conquers everything!

The truth of the matter is we’re all fighting some kind of demon. We’re not perfect but God loves us still. In this life we will mess up more times than we can count. We will do things we know isn’t right, but our emotions will get in the way, and we will try to…

Don’t start if you can’t finish.

Don’t start a new relationship if you’re not over your past relationship. If you aren’t emotionally available, don’t come into a person’s life and pretend to care when you know that you don’t plan to invest yourself in ways that can build a healthy, meaningful relationship between the two of you. It isn’t fair to…

Accepting the end and beginning again.

I hate that feeling when the both of you know it’s over between the two of you, and yet the two of you are still trying to work it out, but the vibe isn’t the same as it used to be… The two of you try so hard to make it work because you genuinely…

You’re not for everybody, and that’s okay!

You can’t help them heal if they refuse to let go. No matter how much of yourself that you give, to the wrong one, you will never be enough. You could have all the right qualities, and still not be the right person for that person or even some people. Learn to pour into individuals…

The icing on the cake.

Do you feel like there’s a void in your life? Have you ever prepared to go somewhere (a vacation, to work, etc.) and you thought you had everything that you needed, yet there was this feeling that something was missing? If you’ve ever ignored that thought, there’s a good chance that you got to your…

Heal first. Love is freedom, not control.

Some people try to “control” their current relationship because they were hurt in the past and that pain left them feeling powerless. So, they build walls, become uncompromising, manipulative or even run, in order to protect themselves from being hurt again; but truth is, they’ve never healed. They are hurting themselves by dwelling on the…