Who are you following?

Be mindful of who or what you’re following. You’ve heard these sayings, “Follow your heart.” “Follow your dreams.” An influencer may say, “Follow me on social media.” All too often we’re so busy following other people or our own desires, that we fail to realize that anything (including our own desires) that we seek or…

Confession time.

Okay, so a moment of transparency… I’m good by myself, but doggoneit, 🗣🗣🗣I WANT A FREAKING HUSBAND! Every now and then I’ll ask God, “God, where is my husband?‼️” I know that my future hubby is out there somewhere, asking God, “Lord, where is my wife?” Lol I have hope, but dear Jesus, 😫“WHY IS…

I thought wrong. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I remember when I was young and naive, I wanted to marry a man of God, preferably a pastor. In my (young and naive) mind a pastor or man of God in general was a better choice to have as a spouse, than a “regular man”. Silly me… Little did I know that even a…

Spiritual issues and physical things.

Some of us are perfecting the wrong things. There are some people who battle their insecurities by purchasing a new body, hoping that it gets them the love or validation that they should first accept from God and then lavish upon themselves. There are people who try to battle their demons with money, buying expensive…

Healing hurts.

Don’t be afraid of your brokenness being exposed to God. Too often people get comfortable with being broken, because they’ve been that way for so long, and some refuse to turn those not so pretty parts of them over to God because it hurts to let their pain go. I know it sounds crazy, but…

Not all advice is sound.

… 💭Most people’s advice comes from their knowledge or lack thereof… Be careful who you listen to. It’s easy to follow the crowd because everyone wants to be “loved” or “accepted”. However, real love and acceptance doesn’t have anything to do with what the crowd is doing… The crowd can all go dive off a…

Cheating is about more than sex.

Let’s be clear about something. People cheat because they want to. Nobody forces them into bed and makes them. Not only that, but it doesn’t have anything to do with what their spouse isn’t or is doing. If you’re committed to someone then you’re going to communicate your feelings to that person so that the…

A call to be different: A short story

We as the body of Christ are supposed to exemplify who Jesus is. The world or even fellow believers whose faith may need strengthening, should be able to come to us for love, wisdom and guidance in the Lord. In other words, we should be there for one another, just as God is always here…

Does your image tell your truth?

Some people use others as masks to suppress their inner pain or to cover up their insecurities. Instead of dealing with the past failures or disappointments, insecurities or struggles, they’ll use other individuals who don’t make their pain better, but makes their image appear to be better. We are living in a world where sadly,…

Training those thoughts.

Lord have mercy. How many times has God physically delivered us from a situation, only for us to remain mentally caged by our own way of thinking (leaning to our own understanding). I believe that sometimes we pray for something so long, and believe that somehow when we get what we pray for, all of…