Fragile, handle with care: Dating an emotional wreck.

When you commit to someone who haven’t taken time to heal from their past, you are also committing to whatever demons they’re fighting. Give people time to heal from being emotionally abused and mentally mishandled before jumping into a relationship with them, because you don’t want to get into something you’re not ready for. If…

You’re not for everybody, and that’s okay!

You can’t help them heal if they refuse to let go. No matter how much of yourself that you give, to the wrong one, you will never be enough. You could have all the right qualities, and still not be the right person for that person or even some people. Learn to pour into individuals…

Don’t downplay my pain.

We’re all different. We experience situations differently. One person may go through something that they consider traumatic, while another person may go through something similar and consider it, “not that bad.” Although we all experience situations from different perspectives, different backgrounds, different ways, and at different times, it’s important to understand that we also experience…

Monday morning coffee: Level up your faith.

You don’t have to receive anything in your spirit that causes you to have a victim’s mentality. Stop accepting lies about yourself when God has given you power to overcome everything this world throws at you. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and telling people the worse about yourself and throwing these pity parties in hopes…

GET OVER OTHER PEOPLE’S PAST WHEN THEY ARE TRYING TO MOVE FORWARD!

There are some things that has happened to other people and they’ve gotten over it, but you haven’t! Listen, GET OVER IT! First of all, it didn’t even happen to you! Oftentimes, what our family or friends go through does affect us, but if it didn’t happen to you, don’t make it about you! Learn…

The problem with “dating up” and “dating down”.

Okay, so let me just say this. I believe that we’ve all done this, at one point or another in our lives, and we’ve all had our own reasons; mostly selfish, but we’ll get to that later. Be honest, you’ve either dated someone who was “out of your league” or you’ve dated someone who wasn’t…

Where’s my invite? – Jesus

Who is on the throne of your heart? Because whoever or whatever you put on the throne, you’ll submit to.  Whatever you submit to has the power to make or break you. Psalm 51:10 English Standard Version “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” Some of us…

Picking up the pieces : How to heal a broken heart.

We were made to love because we were made from love. God is the definition of love. So, it’s no secret that from the time of birth love is what we crave the most. It’s something we cannot live without because living without it literally sucks the life out of a person. Matthew 22:36-40 New…

Pain makes you selfish.

When a person is hurting, all they can think about is how they feel at the moment. Think about it, if you fall and hurt yourself (God forbids), you’re not going to call your loved one to see if they’re okay from your fall! You’re going to make sure that you’re straight. You’re going to…