If you want to love right, heal first.

Sometimes when people are hurting, they seek other people for immediate comfort but they end up hurting innocent people as a result of a previous relationship, childhood traumas, or things they’re currently going through. There’s nothing wrong with reaching out for help, a listening ear, or a shoulder to cry on. The problem is when…

Letting go and letting God.

Pick your battles wisely. Take the advice that YOU can live with because it’s easy for people to tell you what to do when they haven’t walked a day or a mile in your shoes. You have to go to God and get out of your feelings in order to receive what He’s telling you….

Getting my connection secure.

Growth is a natural part of life that extends beyond the physical and into every aspect of your being. The body needs the brain to function, and how we function (grow, live) depends on the mind. Your mind is the control room of your life, literally, and your brain is headquarters (ha ha, headquarters! I’m…

Time to heal. ♥️

Sometimes the hurt runs deep. A person’s childhood has a huge impact on the way that person thinks and reacts to the world around them. Healing can be hurtful, but it’s possible. It’s hurtful because you have to face some things you’d rather ignore, but through Christ, you can conquer the pains of your past!…

People are the way they are for a reason.

Confession time… So people who are annoying for no reason irk me… 🤷🏾‍♀️ Believe it or not, I am an introvert! Heavy on the introvert! I love people, but I love my space reserved only for me as well. Anyway, God put some wisdom in my mind tonight. He said, a lot of people who…

Know who you are.

There are a lot of people looking to other people to tell them who they are… Listen, stop putting your trust in people and do some soul searching and seek God. If you don’t know who you are, then there are a lot of people who will play on your emotions and manipulate you. They…

Evening encouragement.

You don’t need the validation of people. If they don’t accept you, oh well. Don’t allow rejection or people’s opinions of you, to erase the love you have for yourself. Remember, you are made in God’s image. You are loved by the Creator of the Universe! He designed you with purpose! You are enough! Don’t…

Recover before you replace.

It’s important to take time to heal after a breakup because during this time you’re vulnerable in ways that can cause you to listen to your feelings. After a breakup, your vision is cloudy because you’re emotionally damaged, mentally frustrated and confused, and often stressed out. These things can cause you to see what you…

Best one night stand… EVER.

Story time… So, you really have to be careful when you’re feeling lonely, because you’re vulnerable during those times, and when you feel that sting of loneliness, you’ll do just about anything (in some cases anyone) if it fulfills that longing for companionship, because, who wants to be alone forever? No one! Anyway back to…

Fragile, handle with care: Dating an emotional wreck.

When you commit to someone who haven’t taken time to heal from their past, you are also committing to whatever demons they’re fighting. Give people time to heal from being emotionally abused and mentally mishandled before jumping into a relationship with them, because you don’t want to get into something you’re not ready for. If…