Don’t put your life on hold for inconsistent people.

Don’t put your life on hold for people who aren’t sure about you. People make it clear when they’re serious about you. You won’t ever be confused about where you stand. Some people just want to keep access to you or power over you. If you keep waiting for them to make a life with…

You’re deserving of love. ♥️

When you’ve been misused in past relationships, and you finally find someone who loves you right, it’s scary. Some will try to sabotage the new relationship because they expect it to go downhill like all the rest, and in order to protect themself, they either build a wall or they hurt the person before they…

Speed Dating: A short story by Shubricca L Bell. Part 1

You can listen here⤵︎ New Message To: Satoya that’s my best friend Perkins 👯‍♀️ Hey girl, what you doing? To: Gena my chick badd 🍑😍Bailey Hey boo! Girl, nothing really. Just sipping on some wine that tastes like NyQuil, and watching some crazy movie… Wyd? Gena: Typing… Group Message  To: BFF Toya 🥳, BFF Gena 🥵 Bentley Morris: Why…

Anxious for nothing: A message to my single people.

Before you jump into any type of relationship with someone, make sure you’ve had a chance to see every aspect of that person. Getting with someone based on the one side of them you’ve seen, will lead to false expectations down the line… Know what you’re getting yourself into, because falling for the one thing…

Dating while forty. (Final chapter)

Hey y’all! I hope you’ve enjoyed part one and two of “Dating while forty.” Anytime I write anything, I hope that you’ll get something out of the story that is positive and affects your life in a positive way. If you like romance, check out my book, “One for the reason of love,” on Amazon….

Dating while forty. (Part 2)

“Erica’s going on a date tonight,” my sister sang in a flirty tune. “What? Again? Who’s the lucky guy? I hope he isn’t a psycho like the last dude.  See, now you’ve seen first hand how crazy people are, which is why your mother and I wanted to know your location. I don’t want to…

Single: A bad word.

Okay, okay, okay… I’m going to say something, forgive me for saying it, BUT… 🗣 I’m single! I know, I know, I know… I just said, the “S” word! 😵 Get over it. I have, and I’m loving it! It’s actually not that bad! 🥰 *Currently ducking stones* Now that I’ve gotten that out the…

If it’s hard for you to get over them, do this. 👇🏾

🚫 Delete their phone number.🚫 Don’t check their social media pages🚫 Don’t spend your days wondering what went wrong!✅ Focus on strengthening your relationship with God, and finding/walking in your purpose.✅ Get a hobby, perfect your craft, or do something positive that impacts your community and the world around you. Spend time with people who…

Recover before you replace.

It’s important to take time to heal after a breakup because during this time you’re vulnerable in ways that can cause you to listen to your feelings. After a breakup, your vision is cloudy because you’re emotionally damaged, mentally frustrated and confused, and often stressed out. These things can cause you to see what you…