I hear you loud and clear. | Escaping the noise of Silent Treatment.

Whew, the toxicity- it stinks! The tension is thicker than the humidity during a San Francisco summer! You can hear the bickering a mile away! Yet… there’s silence. There’s so much to be said, and even more to be heard when someone gives you the silent treatment, especially, when that someone is a romantic partner….

We all need someone to talk to.

Be careful with who you choose to confide in because some people have their own agendas. The wrong person will use your weaknesses and even your words against you. Your secrets could very well become everybody’s business if you tell someone whose loyalty can’t be trusted. We all need someone to talk to, that’s how…

Understanding clears the elephant in the room.

Ever been in a relationship where the vibe was typically good, and one bad thing happened and it changed everything or at least it changed your perspective? Whether it was a good working relationship with you and a business partner, a personal relationship, a relationship between you and a family member or whatever the case…

Remain calm and listen before responding.

The best thing to do when someone is emotional, is to listen to what they are saying, because they’re trying to communicate how they feel, and acting out emotionally, is a cry for you to listen! Don’t judge them. Don’t tell them that they’re wrong for feeling some type of way. Don’t tell them that…

Filter your words.

Learn to filter your words. When I was younger, I had no filter. I spoke whatever came to mind and that wasn’t always a good thing. You see, it’s one thing to be up front and honest about your feelings but it’s another thing to say what’s on your mind… The Bible tells us, Ephesians…

Stop waiting for nothing to happen ‼️ 🛑📱

Listen Linda, listen! People always have their phones with them! 🤷🏾‍♀️It’s the age of Information. One click can get us whatever we need. You can even talk to your phone and it will send messages, look up information, open apps or call someone if you need it to. So don’t you dare allow someone to tell…

Love is Freedom.

Love gave us free will, to choose to love or hate. He gave us the choice to trust him and be obedient to his Word, or to trust our feelings and take matters into our own hands. Whatever path we choose, we can be sure that his love for us is unfailing. Jesus died for…