A breakup may hurt, but it can also be a blessing in disguise.

Sometimes, the hardest part about going through a breakup is knowing that you compromised way too much of yourself. Although it may hurt, it’s a blessing in disguise, because it’s a reminder that you must take care of yourself first. Your peace of mind is of the upmost importance. You must also learn to set…

Caged in: The problem with living in defense mode.

Living in defense mode gives a false sense of security. Instead of protecting yourself from your fears, you’re actually caging yourself in with them. By getting out of your own head, being truthful with yourself, and facing your fears, you can break the chains that binds you to past traumas. When faced with a situation…

New book alert. A must read for single women.

Sometimes as women, we over compromise ourselves and sacrifice so much in relationships, that when we become single, it’s hard to understand who we are outside of being attached to someone. We can be oblivious of how to be single, so oftentimes, we settle… Instead of waiting on Mr. Right, we settle for Mr. Right…

Transparency moment: I’m STILL in the wilderness…

Transparency moment. I’ve been in what feels like the wilderness for going on seven years now. What started off as a temporary move, in order to come up with a greater plan for my life, has turned into this journey where I know that I’m moving forward, yet I am stuck in the same place….

We’ve got snow!

A winter wonderland, particularly in my neighborhood. So, we haven’t had snowfall like this in NC in at least two years, actually it may be closer to three, but I’m excited. Snowfall began yesterday in the morning, but it was very light. It really began to come down more and consistently around 4:00 in the…

A good deed a day.

Happy New Year  So, yesterday I was inside of a store shopping. Another customer asked if I could get an item for her. I am maybe a couple of inches taller than her. I actually had to get on my tip toes to get the item myself. Shubricca said, in my head… “You don’t work…