Wake up and focus on me. – God.

Everything you’ve been through in life, up to this very point, has prepared you for this very moment. The good, the bad, the happy, the sad, the beautiful, the ugly, the victories, the tragedies, the past, the present. You can do this. I know it may feel like you can’t, because you may be different,…

Dating while forty. (Final chapter)

Hey y’all! I hope you’ve enjoyed part one and two of “Dating while forty.” Anytime I write anything, I hope that you’ll get something out of the story that is positive and affects your life in a positive way. If you like romance, check out my book, “One for the reason of love,” on Amazon….

Dating while forty. (Part 2)

“Erica’s going on a date tonight,” my sister sang in a flirty tune. “What? Again? Who’s the lucky guy? I hope he isn’t a psycho like the last dude.  See, now you’ve seen first hand how crazy people are, which is why your mother and I wanted to know your location. I don’t want to…

Dating while forty… Part 1

Hi everyone! I hope that you enjoy this short story that I have written. It is a fictional story that’s inspired by true events. It’s hilarious at times, but true! I’m pretty sure that people in their mid-30s and up will relate to this story in some sort of way! Enjoy!  “So, I have a…

Single: A bad word.

Okay, okay, okay… I’m going to say something, forgive me for saying it, BUT… 🗣 I’m single! I know, I know, I know… I just said, the “S” word! 😵 Get over it. I have, and I’m loving it! It’s actually not that bad! 🥰 *Currently ducking stones* Now that I’ve gotten that out the…

If it’s hard for you to get over them, do this. 👇🏾

🚫 Delete their phone number.🚫 Don’t check their social media pages🚫 Don’t spend your days wondering what went wrong!✅ Focus on strengthening your relationship with God, and finding/walking in your purpose.✅ Get a hobby, perfect your craft, or do something positive that impacts your community and the world around you. Spend time with people who…

Know your worth and stick to it.

Once they know that they can get away with degrading you, they will lose all respect for you. They won’t see you as loyal, they’ll see you as stupid! You can do better. Love yourself. Set boundaries and standards and stick to them. You don’t have to comprise your standards, morals, and respect, for someone…

Hard truth: The potential you see may never become their reality.

Your feelings will have you seeing potential in people that they don’t see in themselves, but that potential becomes a false expectation when what you see in that person becomes more of who you want them to become rather than who they truly are or want to be… People are who they are, right now….

Best one night stand… EVER.

Story time… So, you really have to be careful when you’re feeling lonely, because you’re vulnerable during those times, and when you feel that sting of loneliness, you’ll do just about anything (in some cases anyone) if it fulfills that longing for companionship, because, who wants to be alone forever? No one! Anyway back to…