A breakup may hurt, but it can also be a blessing in disguise.

Sometimes, the hardest part about going through a breakup is knowing that you compromised way too much of yourself. Although it may hurt, it’s a blessing in disguise, because it’s a reminder that you must take care of yourself first. Your peace of mind is of the upmost importance. You must also learn to set…

Caged in: The problem with living in defense mode.

Living in defense mode gives a false sense of security. Instead of protecting yourself from your fears, you’re actually caging yourself in with them. By getting out of your own head, being truthful with yourself, and facing your fears, you can break the chains that binds you to past traumas. When faced with a situation…

New book alert. A must read for single women.

Sometimes as women, we over compromise ourselves and sacrifice so much in relationships, that when we become single, it’s hard to understand who we are outside of being attached to someone. We can be oblivious of how to be single, so oftentimes, we settle… Instead of waiting on Mr. Right, we settle for Mr. Right…

Mind right affirmation: I will not settle; I will wait on God.

Hello, and welcome back to mind right affirmations with me. I am enjoying creating these podcast episodes because getting my mind right in the morning before starting my day and keeping my mind right throughout the day is crucial, in order for me to be my best self in Christ. This affirmation is a reminder…

Love and success: A short story. Part 3 

Part three: Too much sauce Joseph and I went on a date to revamp his wardrobe, so that he could impress Cindy Chu and Jessica Arnold. I took him to Nordstrom, but after he saw the prices, he insisted we go elsewhere. I told him that we could go elsewhere, if he tried on a…

Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes commitment. 

Love is in the air… oh, never mind, that’s pollen. Achoo! Spring is two weeks away, but you can feel and smell it coming. It was eighty-one freaking degrees today! I have to admit, spring is one of my favorite seasons (fall is the other), but there are some things I just don’t like about…