Sometimes, the hardest part about going through a breakup is knowing that you compromised way too much of yourself. Although it may hurt, it’s a blessing in disguise, because it’s a reminder that you must take care of yourself first.
Your peace of mind is of the upmost importance. You must also learn to set boundaries, and stand firm in them, because if someone disrespects and/or dishonors your boundaries, that is not love.
Another hard part about breaking up is the time you’ve invested in that person, and since time is something we can’t get back, you can feel cheated, or feel like it was a waste, but it wasn’t. Chalk it up as a lesson learned, and don’t ever regret genuinely loving someone, because someday the love you exude will be returned to you, if you don’t allow the one who hurt you to cause you to become bitter.
Don’t be bitter, be better.
Focus on yourself. Learn to let go of the past so that you can fully embrace the present moment.
Sometimes you can feel like you’ve lost yourself in that person, and now you’re left to pick up the broken pieces of yourself, and you don’t know where to begin, but there is hope.
Use your time of singleness to do two things:
➜︎ Strengthen your relationship with God.
➜︎ Work on becoming your best self.
Read my book, 𝘛𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘊𝘢𝘳𝘦: 𝘋𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘈𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘞𝘰𝘮𝘢𝘯.
Shubricca L Bell 