Don’t put your life on hold for people who aren’t sure about you. People make it clear when they’re serious about you. You won’t ever be confused about where you stand. Some people just want to keep access to you or power over you. If you keep waiting for them to make a life with you, your life will pass you by, and you will miss the blessings and opportunities in front of you.
Just because you have history, doesn’t mean you have to hold on to someone who doesn’t value you. Sometimes, you must choose yourself, that’s how you find yourself. Don’t let their hold on you, keep you holding on to a fantasy. Recognize what’s real, no matter how bad it hurts. Accept the truth, and ask God to give you the strength to let go.
Real love is out there, you just have to stop entertaining lust, dysfunction, and the fear that you won’t find better. Better will come when you begin to accept yourself completely, and when you begin to walk purposely. Stay out of your feelings, that’s the worse place to be, if you want to be free. You can’t move forward if you’re constantly going back to what used to be. Accept that people change, people grow apart, and not all relationships or friendships, are meant to last forever.
Remember, just because it came to an end, doesn’t mean your life is over. Let go and let God. For more insight, read, “How to let go and let God.” Click the link below. 👇🏾